May weddings are that sweet spot where spring is in full glow-up mode, but summer heat hasn’t shown up uninvited. Everything feels fresher, lighter, and naturally romantic—aka the perfect vibe for a wedding that’s bright without being over-the-top.
These five ideas are designed to photograph beautifully (hello, Pinterest saves), feel elevated in real life, and still be practical for planning. Think airy colors, intentional details, and spring energy that doesn’t try too hard.
Top 5
1) Garden-Inspired Pastel Palette (But Make It Modern)
Skip the super sugary pastels and go for a “grown-up spring” mix: butter yellow, dusty lilac, soft sage, and warm ivory. Ground the palette with modern neutrals like stone, taupe, or champagne so everything feels elevated, not childish. Use the color in bridesmaid dresses, napkins, and paper goods, and keep florals airy to match. This combo photographs light and bright even on cloudy May days.
2) Floral-Forward Ceremony Moments (Without the Price Shock)
Instead of a full floral wall, create one hero moment: a meadow-style aisle, asymmetrical ceremony pillars, or a grounded arch that looks like it “grew” there. Ask your florist for seasonal May blooms (like tulips, ranunculus, sweet peas, and lilac where available) to stretch your budget. Repurpose ceremony pieces to the sweetheart table or bar area for a double win. The result feels lush and editorial, but way more efficient.
3) Light + Bright Tablescapes with Texture Layering
May is made for soft linens and natural texture—think ivory tablecloths, gauzy runners, and subtle ribbed glassware that catches the light. Add dimension with mismatched bud vases, tapered candles in tonal shades, and place cards with a clean typeface. Keep centerpieces lower and more “scattered” so guests can actually talk and the table feels airy. This is an easy way to make the whole reception look elevated, even in a simple venue.
4) Spring Signature Drinks + Pretty Non-Alcoholic Options
Give your bar a May refresh with something crisp and floral-adjacent, like a French 75 riff, a cucumber mint spritz, or a strawberry basil lemonade cocktail. The key is serving it in cute glassware with a thoughtful garnish (edible flower, citrus wheel, herb sprig) so it looks as good as it tastes. Add a matching zero-proof version so everyone feels included, and style a small sign that ties into your stationery. Bonus: light drinks feel “right” for spring and keep the vibe bright.
5) Golden-Hour Photo Plan (Yes, Put It on the Timeline)
May sunsets can be unreal, but only if you plan for them. Ask your photographer for the exact golden-hour window and build in 15–20 minutes for couple portraits—this is where the light looks soft, glowy, and cinematic. If you’re doing an outdoor ceremony, consider slightly earlier start times so you’re not battling harsh midday sun. This one simple planning move makes everything feel effortlessly elevated in your final gallery.
FAQ
What are the best wedding colors for May that still feel elevated?
Try soft, modern tones like butter yellow, sage, dusty blue, blush-beige, or lavender paired with neutrals (ivory, champagne, stone). The neutral base is what keeps spring colors feeling sophisticated and not overly sweet.
How do I make a spring wedding feel “light and bright” without looking plain?
Focus on layered textures: linen, glass, ceramic, and a mix of bud vases plus candlelight. You can keep the palette simple while adding depth through materials, finishes, and intentional repetition of small details.
What flowers are typically in season for a May wedding?
Many areas see tulips, ranunculus, sweet peas, lilac, anemones, and early garden roses in May (availability varies by region). Asking your florist for seasonal “May-forward” options is usually the easiest way to get a lush look for a smarter spend.
Is May too unpredictable for an outdoor wedding?
May can be gorgeous, but it’s smart to have a rain plan you actually like. Consider a tent option, a nearby indoor backup space, or clear umbrellas in advance so the vibe stays chic even if the forecast changes.
How can I keep guests comfortable at a May wedding?
Plan for temperature swings: offer a hydration station, have a few throws if the evening gets cool, and consider shaded seating for outdoor ceremonies. Comfortable guests stay longer, dance more, and remember the day as effortless (which is the goal).